Queer Sovereignty Method

Living and Expressing Your Authentic Self

An intimate, live online course for queer men

I’m bringing together a small group of queer men for three intimate Saturday online gatherings to connect, share, explore, and discover greater freedom in how we live and express ourselves.

Registration now open

Alex Sloan outdoors in a black tank top, smiling, with timber beams and a yellow cabin behind him

The experience

Space to explore.

We’ll begin by settling into our bodies and connecting with one another. From there, I’ll guide us through an interactive learning experience, introducing the ideas and practices of the Queer Sovereignty Method and exploring how they apply to our lives.

We’ll move between short, visually engaging presentations, guided reflection, breath and awareness practices, and conversations in pairs, small groups, and all together. There will be frequent opportunities to pause, notice what we’re experiencing, share discoveries, and experiment with new ways of responding.

There will be moments of laughter, curiosity, vulnerability, and pleasure. Throughout, we’ll explore how our bodies can inform our choices, how we can create more space for authentic responses, and what becomes possible when we express more of ourselves.

Greater freedom to experience and express what is true.

We’re inviting men to discover more of themselves, not identify what’s wrong with them.

On Zoom

Warm, unhurried, and human.

There’s nothing guru-led here, and nothing clinical. I’ll guide our time together, but the experience belongs to everyone in the room. We’ll bring our own stories, curiosities, desires, and discoveries, creating a space where each man can participate as much or as little as feels right.

You might find yourself laughing, reflecting, feeling unexpectedly moved, or simply enjoying the company of other queer men. There’s no particular way you’re expected to show up.

Everything is invitational. Self-touch and pleasure exploration are offered — always optional, always yours to accept, adapt, or decline. Consent and personal choice shape everything we do together.

You’re encouraged to have your camera and microphone on, because presence matters in live gatherings — and how you show up is always your choice.

Between Saturdays: Explore at Your Own Pace

The experience continues between our live gatherings through a private, interactive online space designed to support your personal exploration.

After each Saturday gathering, a new chapter opens, building on what we’ve explored together. Each chapter brings guided reflections, embodied practices, and playful invitations to experiment with what you’re discovering in your everyday life.

Some invitations encourage you to explore sensation, touch, and pleasure. Others invite you to try something different in your relationships, social encounters, sexuality, or everyday life.

You’ll also have access to a queer sexuality resource library, with curated readings and materials to explore topics that particularly interest you.

This isn’t homework. Follow your curiosity, explore what interests you, adapt an invitation to your own experience, or simply let it pass. There’s no expectation to complete anything.

Three live sessions

An unfolding exploration.

The three sessions move through the Method, one step at a time — a progression to explore, not a script to follow.

01

Recognize: Discover Your Signals

Explore what you want more of in your life and how your body signals desire, excitement, vulnerability, and familiar patterns.

You may increase your awareness of how your body can inform the choices you make and the experiences you genuinely want.

02

Create Space: Explore Your Responses

Through breath, sensation, and shared exploration, practice staying connected to yourself when something feels important, exciting, or uncomfortable.

You may build greater capacity to stay present with what you feel, creating more room for authentic responses, intentional choices, and new possibilities.

03

Choose: Expand Your Possibilities

Bring your discoveries into real-life situations, exploring new ways of expressing yourself, connecting with others, and participating in your life.

You may discover greater freedom to express your desires, connect with others, and participate in your life in ways that feel genuinely your own.

Practical details

Dates
January 9, January 23, and February 6, 2027 — every other Saturday · 90 minutes each

Pacific 9:00–10:30 AM

Eastern (EST) 12:00–1:30 PM

UK 5:00–6:30 PM

Central Europe 6:00–7:30 PM

Price
$195

If the course isn’t right for you, we’ll happily refund your registration fee in full if you let us know during the course or by March 8, 2027.

A Space to Be Yourself

With care.

These are private, live gatherings built around connection, curiosity, consent, and mutual respect. Nothing is recorded, and there are no AI note-takers.

Registration

Registration is open now.

Come explore with us. There’s more of you to discover.

Register now — $195